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Mei 05, 2011

Sahabatku dan Wanita Itu

Hai.

Aku punya kisah...

Aku punya seorang sahabat.
Dia telah berkeluarga, saat ini anaknya berumur 6 tahun dan 7 tahun.
Dan dia baru saja 'putus' dengan temenku yang lain.
Hehe...
Sahabatku, temenku, dan istri sahabatku itu saling mengenal lho. hebat yah. bisa akur. istrinya emang gatau menahu soal hubungan antara sahabatku dengan temenku. tapi cuma curiga.
waw very make me shocked pas awal-awal aku tau bahwa sahabatku itu udda berkeluarga.
Dia gga pernah cerita sih, katanya dia kira aku udda tau %) haft

Mei 04, 2011

Looser Vs Muna

Hi Guys!
What are you doing? Thanks for coming haha...
At this tym a friend knock me via SMS, he is asking me to spent time with discussion until sleepy come, haha lol. Its ok.
Guess what we discuss!
Yap you right, about a Looser and a Munafik.

Sebenernya Looser itu apa sih...
menurut beberapa sumber, kesimpulan definisi looser alias pecundang itu adalah
tidak mau mengakui kekalahan yang dialaminya...

jadi banyak kan semboyan semboyan "Don't be a looser!" haha bener dong ya, himbauan buat "Ayo akui kalo emang kalah!" wkwkkk.

Munafik?
kalo munafik ada definisi jelasnya dalam Agama. Ada tiga kriteria buat seseorang bisa dibilang kalo dia munafik. Kalo dipercaya khianat, kalo bicara berbohong, kalo janji ngingkarin. Jelas-jelas agama ngajarin kita buat gga boleh jadi orang munafik.

Simply, jadi seorang pecundang dan munafik itu pilihan, kamu yang nentuin apakah kamu seorang pecundang atau bukan. dan jadi ato nggak itu silahkan. sedangkan munafik, jelas-jelas jangan jadi munafik. haha. itu simplenya.



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TaNt...

dalem...

:o duruNg merEm ik,, capEk eH taNt |-) agy Ngr jaiN tgs kaH?

huum durung merem. capeg bar napain ewh. gga ngerjain tgs.. cm baca2...

Dr td tmN2ku pd maEn rmH NgajakiN acourTic kaN,gEg waE pda puL... PdhL NgaNtuk berad.. TaNt,NgaNu apa kiE!Emm,prbedaaN pecuNdaNg ama muNafik Ntu apa yak!

oalah.. pecundang ama munafik? jauh... yen muna kiy hrs ada 3 kriteria yg dipenuhi buat bs dibilang muna, jelas2 dilarang dlm islam...

sak merEm.E y taNt,Nek Nda um bLs brTi y tEpar aq :-= huE :# trS sLah 1 e apa taNt dr 3 kriteriA td!!Emm,pecuNdang tu Nda maU mNgakui apa yg dLkukaN&dprbwt y taNt...

yoh sak meremmu om. salah satue ngianatin kepercayaan.. yen pecundang kiy apa ya.. aku mlh gga eruh pastine, ya mungkin kea sing km blg td om...

Lha ku wEs merEm iki taNt,hahaH woo :s sLah 2 Na apa Nu tant?! Q mkir.Na ug Nek pecuNdang ama MuNafik tU Nda bda jauH soaL.Na...MkLum Nda mkN baNgku skLhN!

ya td kn nanya, jd ya t jwb yen menurutku beda jauh.. pecundang kan cuma gga mw mengakui kekalahan ajj.. kl muna kan udda jelas2 dilarang agama...
jd yen muna kiy jelas2 gga entuk, yen pecundang kiy pilihan.

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April 09, 2011

Be Nice

Hi Guys!

Pernah mengagumi seseorang? Pernah menjadikan seseorang sebagai inspirasi? Pernah memfollow apa yang dilalukan seseorang karena kagum?

Kadang orang gga sadar kalo dia dikagumi dan dicontoh semua tindakannya oleh banyak orang, tak banyak yang selalu 'be nice' ke orang lain yang belum dia kenal, 'be nice' emang simple tapi kalo gga terbiasa ya susah buat dipaksa dibiasain. 'be nice' bisa bikin yang tadinya jauh jadi deket, persepsi yang tadinya salah bisa jadi lurus.

Yuk kita biasain be nice ;)

Pengen Kenal

Hello Guys!

Hmmmm gw lagi pengen kenal nih ama seseorang. Just sekedar pengen kenal ajj dulu. Ketemu juga belum pernah. Barusan gw cek notification di Facebook, request add dari gw ke Facebooknya accepted. Iseng baca-baca isinya. I'm falling in love ama isi Quotes di Facebooknya! Haha sumpah. Entah tapi isinya sangat simple dan begitu to the point! Gw klik 'like' deh seandainya ada menu 'like' below that quotes. Lol.

Gimana bisa kenal yah secara dia udda vakum mig sepertinya. Huft.

Any idea? :-l

Maret 29, 2011

Mig33, Jogja, and PCC Crew

Haha, finally I met them, my lovely friends, PCC Crew, on March 27, 2011 ago in Jogja City, Indonesia. How lovely they are. Really ^^

At that time, I just already finished my business in my university. I went to Jogja by Prambanan Express train, and arrived in Jogja at 4pm, there was pap_luv_mam already there. How kindly he is :D thank you pii :* With his Black Vario, we went to our friend kost, near with Jogja International Hospital, talked about pap’s mother that is sick… oh I hope Allah give her better soon, healty always… patient pii,, Anyway, did you know I was meet with pino., anandezz, mrwaspada, noga, and pets there, hmmm also there was some friends that they aren’t migger :D Noga and once again, didn't know who is he.

Play Station haha, again I met that thing, everywhere seems I must met with the name of Play Station (PS) %) and they was play the PS in Noga’s room. Interesting. But my stomach was sick because too many laugh, haha stupid pino. with his joking while play it. Hungry hungry hungry because last tym I eat just when 1pm, no need to wait more long tym, with pino., pap_luv_mam we went to eat, near kost, then eat eat and eat, and some times gone… then pets with his car came, move on the street and look at us, he stopped his car and we seen anandezz out from the car and join with us, haha pets need to parking his car first before join with us. I eaten with called lapendos on phone because he was send me missed call, speakerphone was active, and we all talk together at the same time, haha was nice joke sent to lapendos by us :~

There was stupid thing do by anandezz at that time I need Mukena to praying Maghrib &) I asked pap_luv_mam to get Mukena :D anandezz know it but he didn’t borrow me, and need to ask “may I borrow your Mukena if you have” first by pap_luv_mam before he let me borrow huh :D anandezz you make me lost some minutes to pray :~ but thank you anyway :*

Finished my pray, we have to go to Alun-alun Utara Jogja to hang out, haha Saturday Night :~ and there is a Carnaval Party. Oh at that time pets was sleeping :D you know what PCC Crew did on him? They pushed pets using pillow until he weight to breathing, lol. It was a great idea to made pets woke up :D nananana Saturday night, in the pets’s car, with mrwaspada, pino., pap_luv_mam_ and pets. Laughing and joking, happiness :) Very crowded street was and it made my schedule broken all. I was plan to back to Solo City at 8pm but the crowded made us arrived at Alun-alun Utara Jogja on 9.30pm &) waiting for lapendos, he told me he is on the way to Jogja City from Magelang City, I thought I will ask him to take me to get the bus to back to Solo City after he arrived. 10pm lapendos arrived &)&) he came with briizz, I thought briizz will not come, oh because me maybe he came with lapendos coz pets’s car was full hehe sorry briizz. At that time seems it impossible to me to back to Solo City, all asked me to stay in Jogja City until tomorrow, they wont I get an ‘accident’ if I back to Solo City that night, hmmm it’s okay.

See thanks and good bye to all, then went to Klotok Coffee Shop, to meet my neighbour there, I wil ask him to take me to back to Solo City :P ariive at Klotok, met with some friends from Jogja Paradise chatroom, and met with my lovely brother agil, met also with nonfiction. And that my neighbour said he will stay in Jogja until tomorrow, hahhhhh, no preference available again to me at that time except KEEP STAY IN JOGJA UNTIL TOMORROW. Time was 11pm, oh its too night to knock my grandmom’s house to sleep there, I and lapendos leave Klotok and went to Wirobradjan to my grandmom’s house, and I sleep there that night.

Very thank you for lapendos for taken his time, “thank you taan, sorry I was disturb on you.”

Very thank you for pap_luv_mam for taken his time come to Tugu Station, taken me to Riot Camp, “thank you pii, sorry I was disturb on you. thank you for our conversations, thank you for your patient.”

Very thank you for mrwaspada for bought his helm :D “don’t sell my helm, and I will keep your expensive helm” haha.

Very thank you for pets for his kindly and for stayed in his car, “yankarif hug hug hug cela2 nya belum clear maap yah,,,”

Very thank you for anandezz for brought me the mukena for praying, “thanks ya Gung”

Thank you for briizz too, thank you too for Noga Junko for let me stay in his room in Riot. Love you all Rioters friends. Miss you all. Nice to have time with you.



Jogja City, March 27, 2011


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Desember 08, 2009

My Close Friends

Sahabat, saat kalian butuh gw, gw selalu ada kan? Semalem gw butuh kalian, kalian dimana...? Kenapa baru pagi ini kalian ada...

How its happened...


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November 17, 2009

Koskoy

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Riuusa

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November 15, 2009

Maafkan dan Lupakan

Ini sebuah kisah tentang Harry Potter dan Hermione Granger. Hahaha maksud gw tentang dua sahabat karib yang lagi jalan ngelintasin gurun pasir. Gurun pasir mana? Ya Lw misalin aja gurun pasir apa gitu kek susah amat :p

Ditengah perjalanan, mereka berantem, Hermione nampar pipinya Harry. Hermione ngerasa sakit hati, gw sendiri heran napa hatinya dia ya yang sakit, kalo gw udda pasti pipi gw yang sakit secara yang ditampar kan pipi, anyway, dengan tanpa ngomong secuil katapun, kok secuil? bukannya sepatah kata? ya suka-suka gw bo', Harry nulis di atas pasir; Lw misalin lagi aja tu si Harry nulisnya pake apa gitu yang jelas bukan pake stabilo. Harry nulis gini: HARI INI, SAHABAT TERBAIKKU MENAMPAR PIPIKU. Gw nambahin dibawah tulisan itu: SAMPE SAKIT, SAMPE NANGIS DARAH. Bego gw emang. Udah lama kok, tenang aja kagak nular. Mereka jalan terus, mungkin nyari ujung jalan kok kagak nyampe-nyampe, akhirnya mereka nemuin sebuah oasis, Lw tau oasis? Nggak tau? Nggantung aja Lw :p.

Mereka mutusin untuk mandi. Ni ceritanya mereka bawa anduk sendiri-sendiri dari rumah, Hermione anduknya gambar Dream Theater, Harry gambar bunga-bunga warna pink. Hah? Kagak kebalik? Kagak, gw yang bikin, gausah protes ye. Harry dan beserta bersama dengan hatinya yang terluka, teriris, tercabik, terkoyak, apa lagi ya, nyoba renang tapi hampir aja tenggelam. Ya mungkin voldemort kalah ama dia, tapi belum tentu dia menang lawan oasis di padang pasir meskipun dia bawa anduk bunga-bunga warna pink. Hermione nyelametin si Harry. Harry sendiri butuh waktu 5menit 48,7390697 detik buat siuman, abis siuman and rasa takutnya dia udda ilang, dia nulis di batu lagi: HARI INI, SAHABAT TERBAIK KU MENYELAMATKAN NYAWAKU. Gw cuma ngebatin aja, ni orang hobby banget nulis diatas batu.

Hermione nanya ke Harry, ya mungkin Hermione mikir rasa air oasis tu kea rasa skelegro, "Kenapa tadi kamu nulis di pasir, eh sekarang nulis di batu?"

Harry ngejawab, enteng, kea plastik cuma isi pulpen satu, "Saat seorang sahabat melukai kita, kita harus menulisnya diatas pasir agar angin maaf datang berhembus dan menghapus tulisan tersebut. Dan bila sesuatu yang luar biasa terjadi, kita harus memahatnya diatas batu hati kita, agar tidak bisa hilang tertiup angin."

Pesen gw:
1. Dalam hidup ini sering timbul beda pendapat dan konflik karena sudut pandang yang berbeda. Oleh karenanya cobalah untuk saling memaafkan dan lupakan masalah lalu.
2. Belajarlah menulis diatas pasir. Cari guru privat yang bayarannya murah kalo perlu. Sukur-sukur bisa dibayar pake IDR Mig33, ato chips poker, ato nick-nick cebol.
3. Belajar juga nulis diatas batu karena mungkin suatu saat banyak angin. Angin bisa niup tulisan bo'.


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November 11, 2009

Riuusa

Riuusa apaan sih? Hahahaha sebenernya lebih tepat sih bukan 'apaan' tapi 'siapa'. Gw ngerasa cewek ini perlu gw ulas lebih dalem. Gw kupas, kalo perlu sampe akar-akarnya.

Riuusa siapa sih? Riuusa itu adalah nickname seorang cewek yang aslinya namanya Riwis Sadati. Dia temen gw. Dunia Tanpa Batas-lah yang mempertemukan kita. Dan dia ternyata blogger juga kea gw :x Blognya dia bisa diliat disini dan disini.

Anyway dia kalo diliat-liat kok mirip ya ama si Ayusitha. **Hahahaha iya kok Sa, elo tu mirip banget sama dia**. Gw kenal dia pertama kali di facebook. Kemudian BERSAMBUNG. ahahahahaha. bentar laper mau maem dulu gw.

Agustus 18, 2009

Because you're my Best Friend..

When you are sad,
I will dry your tears.
When you are scared,
I will comfort your fears.
When you are worried,
I will give you hope.
When you are confused,
I will help you cope.
And when you are lost,
And can't see the light.
I shall be your beacon
Shining ever so bright
This is my oath.
I pledge till the end.
Why you may ask?
Because your my friend.

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I need you now

My friend, I need you now-

Please take me by the hand.

Stand by me in my hour of need,

Take time to understand.

Take my hand, dear friend,

And lead me from this place.

Chase away my doubts and fears,

Wipe the tears from off my face.

Friend, I cannot stand alone.

I need your hand to hold,

The warmth of your gentle touch

In my world that's grown so cold.

Please be a friend to me

And hold me day by day.

Because with your loving hand in mine,

I know we'll find the way.

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I will be there.......

If one day you feel like crying...
Call me.
I don't promise that I will make you laugh,
But I can cry with you

If one day you want to run away--
Don't be afraid to call me.
I don't promise to ask you to stop...
But I can run with you

If one day you don't want to listen
to anyone...
Call me.
I promise to be there for you.
And I promise to be very quiet.

But if one day you call...
And there is no answer...
Come fast to see me.
Perhaps I need you.

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Cute Friendship Quotes

* Actions speak louder than words.
* The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love somebody else.
* Don't let the past hold you back; you're missing the good stuff.
* Life's short. If you don't look around once in a while, you might miss it.
* A best friend is like a four leaf clover: hard to find and lucky to have.
* If you think that the world means nothing, think again. You might mean the world to someone else.
* When it hurts to look back, and you're scared to look ahead, you can look beside you and your best friend will be there
* True friendship never ends.
* Friends are forever.
* Good friends are like stars....You don't always see them, but you know they are always there.
* Don't frown. You never know who is falling in love with your smile.
* What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry?
* NOBODY IS PERFECT UNTIL YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH THEM. (Isn't that the truth?)
* Everything is okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end.
* Most people walk in and out of you life. But only friends leave footprints in your heart.

Send this on to everyone special in your life, even the people who really make you mad sometimes. Whether we realize it or not, everyone we know is very special to us. When we look back on our younger years, we will remember the people who went to school with us, the people who made us laugh, the people who hung out with us when nobody else would, and the people who made our lives much better simply by being a part of it.

There may be somebody who is thinking about you RIGHT NOW and wishing that you were around. That's the wonderful thing about friendship-you always feel loved and cared about.

The most important thing to remember is... Always appreciate the friends that you have. A fight may come and go very easily, but a friendship could last forever. For every second spent in anger, a minute of happiness is wasted. So send this to your friends and let them know that you care.

* Love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear.
* Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you.
* Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget.
* You can only go as far as you push.

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Quotes on Friendship

A friend is one who knows us, but loves us anyway. -- Fr. Jerome Cummings

Remember, the greatest gift is not found in a store nor under a tree, but in the hearts of true friends. -- Cindy Lew

Who finds a faithful friend, finds a treasure. -- Jewish Saying

"Your friend is the man who knows all about you, and still likes you."
-- Elbert Hubbard

"Who finds a faithful friend, finds a treasure."
-- Jewish saying

What is a friend? A single soul dwelling in two bodies. -- Aristotle

Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow.
Don't walk behind me, I may not lead.
Just walk beside me and be my friend.-- Albert Camus

"The only way to have a friend is to be one."
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson

The best way to destroy an enemy is to make him a friend.-- Abraham Lincoln


Hold a true friend with both your hands. -- Nigerian Proverb

"A faithful friend is the medicine of life."
-- Apocrypha

Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for awhile and leave footprints on our hearts. And we are never, ever the same.-- Anonymous



Friends are like melons; shall I tell you why? To find one good you must one hundred try. -- Claude Mermet

"Friendship multiplies the good of life and divides the evil."
-- Baltasar Gracian (1647)

"Friendship needs no words..."
-- Dag Hammarskjold.

"Friends are the sunshine of life."
-- John Hay (1871)

"The best mirror is an old friend."
--George Herbert

More Friendship quotes :

One who looks for a friend without faults will have none. -- Hasidic Saying

A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.-- Walter Winchell

Friends are needed both for joy and for sorrow. -- Samuel Paterson

Friendship is the golden thread that ties the heart of all the world.-- John Evelyn

Friendship doubles our joy and divides our grief.-- Swedish proverb

A friend hears the song in my heart and sings it to me when my memory fails.-- Anonymous

Count your age with friends but not with years - Anonymous

Plant a seed of friendship; reap a bouquet of happiness. -- Lois L. Kaufman

"I keep my friends as misers do their treasure, because, of all the things granted us by wisdom, none is greater or better than friendship."
-- Pietro Aretino (1537)

"There is nothing worth the wear of winning, but laughter and the love of friends."
-- Hillaire Belloc

"The rain may be falling hard outside,
But your smile makes it all alright.
I'm so glad that you're my friend.
I know our friendship will never end."
-- Robert Alan



"Wishing to be friends is quick work, but friendship is a slow-ripening fruit."
-- Aristotle (4th century B.C.)

"Friendship is essentially a partnership."
-- Aristotle (4th century B.C.)

"Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe unto him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up."
-- The Bible: Ecclesiastes 4:9-10.

"A friend loves at all times."
-- The Bible: Proverbs 17, 17.

"A companion loves some agreeable qualities which a man may possess, but a friend loves the man himself."
-- James Boswell (1763)

"Friendship is a strong and habitual inclination in two persons to promote the good and happiness of one another."
-- Eustace Budgell (1711)


"Friendship is Love without his wings!"
-- Lord Byron (1806)

"Friendship makes prosperity more brilliant, and lightens adversity by dividing and sharing it."
-- Cicero (44 B.C.)

"True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it be lost"
-- Charles Caleb Colton (1825)

"Every man passes his life in the search after friendship."
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson

"A friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of nature."
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson

"A friend is a person with whom I may be sincere."
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson

"We do not so much need the help of our friends as the confidence of their help in need."
-- Epicurus (3rd century B.C.)

"Friends show their love in times of trouble..."
-- Euripides (408 B.C.)

"One loyal friend is worth ten thousand relatives."
-- Euripides (408 B.C.)

"A good friend is my nearest relation."
-- Thomas Fuller (1732)

"My friend is he who will tell me my faults in private."
-- Solomon Ibn Gabirol

"Your friend is your needs answered."
-- Kahil Gibran

"Let there be no purpose in friendship save the deepening of the spirit."
-- Kahil Gibran.

"Let your best be for your friend..."
-- Kahil Gibran

"In the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, and sharing of pleasures."
-- Kahil Gibran

"A sympathetic friend can be quite as dear as a brother."
-- Homer (9th century B.C.)

"We cannot tell the precise moment when friendship is formed. As in filling a vessel drop by drop, there is at last a drop which makes it run over; so in a series of kindnesses there is at last one which makes the heart run over."
-- Samuel Johnson

"However rare true love may be, it is less so than true friendship."
-- La Rochefoucauld (1665)

"A true friend is the greatest of all blessings, and that which we take the least care to acquire."
-- La Rochefoucauld (1665)

"I shot an arrow into the air,
It fell to earth, I knew not where;
For so swiftly it flew, the sight
Could not follow it in its flight.


I breathed a song into the air,
It fell to earth, I knew not where;
For, who has sight so keen and strong
That it can follow the flight of song?


Long, long afterward, in an oak
I found the arrow, still unbroke;
And the song, from beginning to end,
I found again in the heart of a friend."
-- Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

"You can make more friends in two months by becoming really interested in other people, than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you."
-- Bernard Meltzer

"Love is rarer than genius itself. And friendship is rarer than love." -- Charles Peguy

"There can be no Friendship where there is no Freedom." -- William Penn

"No man is useless while he has a friend." -- Robert Louis Stevenson

"A friend is a present you give yourself." -- Robert Louis Stevenson

"Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends whom we choose." -- Tehyi Hsieh

"Grief can take care of itself, but to get the full value of a joy you must have somebody to divide it with." -- Mark Twain

An honest answer is the sign of true friendship.-- Proverbs 24:26

"A true friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be anywhere else." -- Len Wein

"You cannot be friends upon any other terms than upon the terms of equality."
-- Woodrow Wilson

It is not what you give your friend, but what you are willing to give him that determines the quality of friendship. -- Mary Dixon Thayer

A single rose can be my garden... a single friend, my world. -- Leo Buscaglia

Advice from your friends in like the weather, some of it is good, some of it is bad.
-Anonymous

It's the ones you can call up at 4:00 a.m. that really matter.-- Marlene Dietrich

Books, like friends, should be few and well chosen.
-Samuel Paterson

Only your real friends will tell you when your face is dirty. -- Sicilian Proverb

Good friends are good for your health.-Irwin Sarason

The language of friendship is not words but meanings. -- Henry David Thoreau

True friendship is a plant of slow growth, and must undergo and withstand the shocks of adversity, before it is entitled to the appellation. -- George Washington

I have lost friends, some by death, others through sheer inability to cross the street.
- Virginia Woolf

Life is to be fortified by many friendships. To love and to be loved is the greatest happiness of existence.
-Sydney Smith

In the End, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.
-Martin Luther King, Jr. (1929-1968)

It is easy enough to be friendly to one's friends. But to befriend the one who regards himself as your enemy is the quintessence of true religion. The other is mere business. -- Mahatma Gandhi


One of the surest evidences of friendship that one individual can display to another is telling him gently of a fault. If any other can excel it, it is listening to such a disclosure with gratitude, and amending the error.-- Edward Bulwer-Lytton

A true friend is one who overlooks your failures and tolerates your success!-- Doug Larson

A true friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be anywhere else. -- Len Wein

Do not protect yourself by a fence, but rather by your friends. -- Czech. Proverb

Friendship is to be purchased only by friendship. A man may have authority over others, but he can never have their hearts but by giving his own. -- Thomas Wilson

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Arti Sahabat

Seseorang gadis gw tanya tentang Persahabatan. Dan dia menjawab:

Sahabat adalah keperluan jiwa, yang mesti dipenuhi. Dialah ladang hati, yang kau taburi dengan kasih dan kau tuai dengan penuh rasa terima kasih. Dan dia pulalah naungan dan pendianganmu.
Kerana kau menghampirinya saat hati lupa dan mencarinya saat jiwa butuh kedamaian.
Bila dia berbicara, mengungkapkan fikirannya, kau tiada takut membisikkan kata “Tidak” di kalbumu sendiri, pun tiada kau menyembunyikan kata “Ya”. Dan bilamana dia diam,hatimu berhenti dari mendengar hatinya; kerana tanpa ungkapan kata, dalam persahabatan, segala fikiran, hasrat, dan keinginan dilahirkan bersama dan dikongsi, dengan kegembiraan tiada terkirakan.
Di kala berpisah dengan sahabat, tiadalah kau berdukacita. Karena yang paling kau kasihi dalam dirinya, mungkin kau nampak lebih jelas dalam ketiadaannya, bagai sebuah gunung bagi seorang pendaki, nampak lebih agung daripada tanah ngarai dataran. Dan tiada maksud lain dari persahabatan kecuali saling memperkaya roh kejiwaan. Karena cinta yang mencari sesuatu di luar jangkauan misterinya, bukanlah cinta , tetapi sebuah jala yang ditebarkan: hanya menangkap yang tiada diharapkan.
Dan persembahkanlah yang terindah bagi sahabatmu. Jika dia harus tahu musim surutmu, biarlah dia mengenali pula musim pasangmu. Gerangan apa sahabat itu jika kau sentiasa mencarinya, untuk sekadar bersama dalam membunuh waktu? Carilah ia untuk bersama menghidupkan sang waktu! Karena dialah yang bisa mengisi kekuranganmu, bukan mengisi kekosonganmu. Dan dalam manisnya persahabatan, biarkanlah ada tawa ria dan berkongsi kegembiraan.. Karena dalam titisan kecil embun pagi, hati manusia menemui mentari pagi dan gairah segar kehidupan.
Points to remember when talking about friendships:
* You are allowed to have many friends.
* Honesty is important in a friendship.
* Friends sometimes hurt each other, but they can apologize and forgive.
* Friends can influence each other, both in a positive way and in a negative way. (See: Peer Pressure)
* Who you choose to be your friend is important, it is essential that you choose wisely and that you benefit from the friendship.
* It takes many learned skills to make and maintain a friendship; it also takes many skills to end a friendship.
* It is okay and even beneficial to make friends with the opposite gender.
* It takes time to make a good friend, but it is worth the effort as having a confident can help a teenager with stress.
* Spending time together will help you get to know your friends well, so that you can feel comfortable sharing feelings.
* A good friendship will make you feel good about yourself.
Kita teman sejati. Tunjukkan pada dunia, arti sahabat...

This note dedicated by me for all of my closest friends, especially Lisa Kristiana Dewi, Jenny Gemini Sahanaya, Siti Fradita Saparani, Ria Yunita Ristiana, Ratih Asri Setiawati, Nita Nur Kurniati, Liana Istiqorini, Estiana Rusmawati, Sheyla Paramita Tamaksal, Bayu Himawan, Fitriani, Abdul Aris Setiawan Bahari, Sigit Iman Gussrisanto, Ike Yuni Romanika, Dewi Puspito, Nurul Fatimah, Rizal Gayuh Pamuji, Didik Suprastowo.


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November 18, 2008

Lagi deh…. pusing pusing miKiR gituan. . . .

sahabat gue tadi maLem CuRhat sama gue…. dia bisa ngomong yang … uwwwhhhh so touChy abiZzz gitu… dia biLang kayak gini :

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JaNGan PernaH meMbiCaraKan PeRasaan Yang tiDak PerNah ada.
JaNgan PerNah meNyentuH Hidup SeseORang kaLau iTu aKan meNghancuRkan HatinYa.
JaNGan PernaH meNatAp maTanYA kaLau seMua yaNg kamU LakuKan hanYa kEboHongan.
HaL paLing Kejam Yang seseOraNg Lakukan kePada OraNg Lain adaLah memBiarKannYA meNyayaNgi seMentaRa kaMu tiDak perNah BerniAt uNtuk MendaPatKannYA…
CinTa aKAn Lebih MenyakiTkan Lagi ApaBiLa seseOraNg yaNg kaMu saYangi tidaK Tau aPa yanG seSunGGuhnYa kaMu RasaKan…
YanG PaLing MenyeDihKan daLam hiDup adaLah meNemuKan seseOrang dan MenYayaNginYa,hanYa unTuk mengeTahui Bahwa Dia BukaN unTuk Kamu dan Kamu suDah MengHabisKan BanyAk waKtu unTuk Orang Yang TidaK PerNah Menghargainya….
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uwwwwhhh speeChLess gue. . . . .
gue Jadi mikiR gimana kaLo haL kayak gitu nggak Cuma TeRJadi di diRinya aJa… meLainkan di diRi gue Juga. . . . .
WHAT MuST I Do, hah??????


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Maafkan dan Lupakan

Ini sebuah kisah tentang dua orang
sahabat karib yang
sedang berjalan melintasi gurun pasir.
Ditengah perjalanan,
mereka bertengkar, dan salah seorang
menampar temannya.
Orang yang kena tampar, merasa sakit
hati, tapi dengan
tanpa berkata-kata, dia menulis di atas
pasir; HARI INI,
SAHABAT TERBAIK KU MENAMPAR PIPIKU.

Mereka terus berjalan, sampai menemukan
sebuah oasis,
dimana mereka memutuskan untuk mandi.
Orang yang pipinya
kena tampar dan terluka hatinya, mencoba
berenang namun
nyaris tenggelam, dan berhasil
diselamatkan oleh sahabatnya.
Ketika dia mulai siuman dan rasa
takutnya sudah hilang,
dia menulis di sebuah batu; HARI INI,
SAHABAT TERBAIK KU
MENYELAMATKAN NYAWAKU.

Orang yang menolong dan menampar
sahabatnya, bertanya,
"Kenapa setelah saya melukai hatimu, kau
menulisnya di
atas pasir, dan sekarang kamu menulis di
batu ?"
Temannya sambil tersenyum menjawab,
"Ketika seorang
sahabat melukai kita, kita harus
menulisnya diatas
pasir agar angin maaf datang berhembus
dan menghapus
tulisan tersebut. Dan bila sesuatu yang
luar biasa
terjadi, kita harus memahatnya diatas
batu hati kita,
agar tidak bisa hilang tertiup angin."

Dalam hidup ini sering timbul beda
pendapat dan konflik
karena sudut pandang yang berbeda. Oleh
karenanya cobalah
untuk saling memaafkan dan lupakan
masalah lalu.
Belajarlah menulis diatas pasir.



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